It’s not just about cleaning out the closet or tossing old stuff you never use. It’s about letting go of the things—physical things, old habits, and emotional baggage—that no longer serve you. And trust me, I know it’s way harder than we ever give it credit for.
But here’s the thing: when we hold on to things—whether it’s clutter, old memories, or even stuff that feels like a “should”—it keeps us stuck. It weighs us down, fills up space we could use for something better, and keeps us from moving forward. We think we’re holding on for the right reasons, but in reality, it’s often these very things that are holding us back from the life we really want. And honestly, I don’t think any of us should stay stuck. We deserve better than that.
This year, I want to help you make room for something new. Something that lights you up, something that makes you feel lighter, freer, and more focused on what really matters. So, let’s make 2025 the Year of Letting Go. Let’s clear out what’s cluttering up our space, our minds, and our hearts—and give ourselves permission to embrace the things that will actually bring us meaning and joy moving forward.
Let’s make this year about creating space for new opportunities. Let go of what no longer serves us – the limiting beliefs, the draining relationships, the clutter that holds us back. Let's make room for growth, for freedom, and for a life that's truly ours.
Why Letting Go Matters
Don’t we all want to wake up in a home that feels calm, uplifting, and full of good energy? A space that inspires you instead of reminding you of everything you’re not doing or holding onto? Picture this: starting your day without the weight of old stuff—whether that’s memories, habits, or just too much clutter—dragging you down. That’s the magic of letting go.
When we hold onto things—whether it’s physical clutter or emotional baggage—it can feel heavy. It’s the “what ifs,” the “maybes,” and even the “shoulds” that pile up faster than anything in your closet. And honestly? Those are the things that can make life feel overwhelming and stuck.
Here’s the good news though: letting go is the first step to opening up your life to so much more. It’s about making space for joy, clarity, and those things that truly matter. It’s about choosing to move forward without all the extra weight from the past holding you back. It’s freeing, it’s exciting, and it’s totally possible—one step at a time.
So let me ask you—what are you holding onto that’s no longer serving you? Is it that closet full of clothes you haven’t worn in years? Boxes of paper from the last 10 years? Or maybe it’s something deeper, like an old mindset or a habit you’re ready to shake off.
The First Steps on Your Letting Go Journey
Here's the truth about letting go—there’s no one-size-fits-all solution. AND...letting go isn’t about being perfect or getting it all right; it’s about taking one small step toward the version of yourself you want to be. If this will be your Year of Letting Go, remember—it’s your journey. You don’t have to have it all figured out today. What matters is that you start, even if it feels messy or slow. So, let’s take it one step at a time. Here’s how you can begin:
Identify What’s Holding You Back: Take a moment to think about the things both physical and emotional that aren’t serving you anymore. Be honest with yourself and ask:
Am I holding onto something out of guilt?
Am I keeping things because of fear or sentimentality?
Are there habits, memories, or regrets that I’m ready to let go of?
Getting clear on what’s weighing you down is where it all begins. And hey, no judgment here—this is about you. If you’re holding onto something because letting go feels hard, that’s okay. Just recognizing that feeling is a big step forward.
Create Space for New Beginnings: Letting go isn’t just about removing things—it’s about making room for new, positive experiences. Whether it’s finally clearing out that overstuffed closet or releasing something that’s been weighing on your heart, it’s about making room for what’s next in your life.
Declutter your space: Start small. Seriously, pick just one thing—a drawer, a shelf, maybe that one closet that always makes you cringe. Go through it, and let go of what you don’t use or need anymore. Resist the urge to tackle the entire house at once. Overwhelm is the enemy of decluttering. Choosing just one space or category makes the task feel more manageable and less daunting.
Clear emotional clutter: This might mean saying "no" to things that drain your energy, limiting contact with people who bring negativity into your life, or creating space for yourself to recharge and heal. This can be tough, especially if you're a people-pleaser. It's not about being selfish; it's about recognizing your limits. Start small – maybe say no to one or two things a week – and gradually build from there. Remember, every "no" to something that drains you is a "yes" to your own well-being.
Let Go of Perfectionism: Letting go doesn’t have to be picture-perfect—it almost never is. Maybe you’ll let go of something and later second-guess yourself. Or maybe you’ll dive into decluttering and feel totally overwhelmed halfway through. Guess what? That’s okay. Letting go isn’t about getting it all “right”; it’s about taking one step at a time. Progress, not perfection, is the goal.
Celebrate the small wins—whether it’s an organized drawer, a little extra breathing room in your closet, or even just acknowledging that you’re ready to let go of something emotionally. Every single step forward is worth celebrating.
Focus on What You Want to Create: Now that you’ve let go of the things that were weighing you down, it’s time to shift your energy to what you want to invite into your life. What do you want to make space for this year? Is it more time for yourself, new opportunities, or a sense of peace and joy in your home and heart?
Take a moment to think about what you truly want—and then start creating it:
Build routines that support your goals and the life you’re dreaming of.
Focus on what lights you up and make those things a priority.
Stay open to new possibilities. When you let go of what no longer serves you, you create room for something amazing—whether it’s a new connection, a fresh start in your career, or simply more space to grow into the person you want to be.
Be Kind to Yourself: Letting go isn’t always easy, and that’s okay. Some days might feel heavy, and progress can feel slow—but that doesn’t mean you’re doing it wrong. Be kind to yourself as you navigate this process. There’s no rulebook or perfect way to let go—it’s about finding what works for you and taking it one step at a time.
If you’ve been holding onto things for years (or even decades!), it’s important to give yourself permission to go at your own pace and trust that every step forward is creating space for something better. This journey is for you, and every effort you make is absolutely worth it.
Letting Go Is Personal—And That’s Okay
Remember, Letting go isn’t just about clearing out things; it’s about freeing yourself from what’s been holding you back—physically, emotionally, or even mentally. It’s about creating space for what truly matters and opening the door to possibilities that inspire and energize you.
I know it can feel overwhelming, and that’s perfectly normal. Be patient with yourself, celebrate your progress, and trust that this process is leading you to a life that feels lighter, more purposeful, and full of possibility.
So, are you ready to start creating space for something better? I’m here cheering you on, and together, we can take that first step toward a life that feels truly meaningful.
Thanks for following along on our journey as we declutter and organize!
XOXO-
Janelle
& The A Meaningful Space Team
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